It's good to hear that a woman is having the dilemma of asking someone out, and not taking the Sydneysiders way of waiting for the guy to do the dirty work!
You could always take Mr Capables approach and get absolutely smashed, that way if it all turns out pear shaped you can blame alcohol for your actions!
Seriously though, depends on the situation, how long have you known this guy, is he someone you see in your local shops? Is it someone you actually know by name?
Start chatting again with him and say you are gonna go grab a coffee and would he like to join you. If he works in a shop, then do it near closing time (that way there's not usually a stack of people in there shopping).
Isn't it just the hardest thing to do to ask someone out, he's probably wanting to go on a date too, and more terrified than you of asking.
You should be able to tell by his body language if he's interested, and the way he talks to you.
There again, i'm hopeless at doing it. Keep the boys posted, we love some scandal |