This might be an obvious question but for the sake of clarity, surely you're not expecting to fall as much on trad as you would normally on sport??
Falling on trad is more of a last resort in my opinion, and if you do, the only thing that matters is that you are still alive (and relatively uninjured). Her comfort, your comfort, and the forces on the whole system are irrelevant provided everything holds and you are alive. That's the way I see it. |