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climbing = dating? 23-Oct-2008 At 3:14:19 PM anthonyk

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On 23/10/2008 noclimberboys wrote:
>>Cripes, what is this guy doing that is so full on?
>>These days, everyone is so scared of rejection they never actually ask
>>someone out, so usually come ons are pretty subtle
>
>Yes, you're right about this too! I think there's a systemic problem.
>Give me a guy who's willing to throw their heart on their sleeves, rather
>than slyly asking to grab a coffee and giving me 15 minutes to get to know
>each other (of cause only the right guy should do this - otherwise I'm
>going to go running!)
>
>Subtle, half arsed come ons are so sly! Like a slimy eel.
>

you're expecting someone to wear their heart on their sleeves and risk being shot down before they've gotten to know you? i imagine if someone is that confident straight off they're only seeing tits, ass and a cute smile, i thought girls whinged about guys being superficial

no wonder girls go for assholes, they like to see confidence and self-assurance but how can you really expect that unless a) someone has never been turned down or b) they're oblivious to the outside world & only aware of their own self-importance or c) they think you're worth it, but wouldn't that take time to work out as well?