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climbing = dating? 23-Oct-2008 At 11:03:52 AM cookie

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>Yes, you've hit it on the head Cookie (and the others that have posted
>advice)... But you also said 'I'm doing it wrong'... how do people then
>go about making their heart strings heard? I was thinking I would leave
>it up to chemistry- that pheromone thing. My body will intrinsically know
>who to fornicate with?!?

sorry... the "you're doing it wrong" was a line from a thread of funny photos... sort of like "fail" and icanhazchezburger...

to be honest i had the same issues when i was in my 18-20 year bracket.. i had a slew of guys following me around like puppy dogs that i just wasn't interested in.. and the ones i was interested in were so narcissistic that not a single one of my relationships lasted more than 4 weeks (o.k one was 3 months but hey). it's life. boys chace girls who chase other boys who are not interested or chasing other girls or in some instances, are gay. i wouldn't leave it up to your pheromones, cos you will get every stray that way... just be yourself, and be nice and eventually you will get someone who you are a match with :)

>Gosh, can guys and girls just not be platonic?

no. no and no and no. maybe after a roll in the hay.. but no ; ) unless there is aspecific reason, like he's your boyfriend's brother, or a long lost relative and it is morally taboo... otherwise, free-for-all :)
i had an in depth heated discussion about this with a guy i was just friends with (at the time), i remember saying "you'll see" and he was all like "no you can be friends" HAHAHA now we live together!!!! *gets all reminiscent and happy* but it might have been a way to tune me :P